As an Influencer part 1

I'm presently reading a Book 📚 titled 'Becoming a Person of Influence' authored by John C. Maxwell and co-authored by Jim Dornan.
I saw some few nuggets that would help us in our GISTMH and I hope this helps and blesses someone 

As a member of GISTMH, as an influencer, your focus should be on GIVING rather than getting.

1. Give that girl LOVE.
The length and breadth of our influence on others are directly related to the depth of our concern for them. Tell her how much you love her, give her a hug, encourage her.

2. Show that girl some RESPECT
By doing this, u are teaching her how to respect other too.

3. Give her a SENSE OF SECURITY
This would make her trust you and share deep things with you. People are reluctant to trust you and reach their potential when they are worried about whether they're safe with you. But when they feel secure, they are in a position to respond positively.

4. Give her a sense of RECOGNITION
Let her know she's appreciated. Every little bit of recognition can go an incredibly long way in a person's life.

5. ENCOURAGE her
Help her achieve her dreams by encouraging her. We achieve a lot more when we encourage each other. Lack of encouragement can hinder a person from living a healthy, productive life.

I hope to share some more nuggets before the end of this week 

By 

Onisofe Promise Fransis